I have a lady friend who lives rather too far away from me for our best enjoyment. Let us say her name is Jamila. We get together whenever we can. We have known each other for several years and early on I found that Jamila was receptive to the idea of being spanked and eventually caned with accompanying sexual activities!We began with a limited repertoire of fairly light over-the-knee or over-the-side-of-the-bed hand spankings and light canings. We moved on to trying different types of implements, canes, and techniques.Jamila said, to my surprise, that even vigorous hand spankings hardly hurt at all. They certainly hurt my hand and it was a relief to start using a light cane on her after the hand spanking. She said the hand spankings were a good warm-up and she did not like ‘cold canings’.Things moved along and after a while, Jamila accepted moderate canings. I found out that as my experience increased in caning her in the manner and on the preferred areas of her shapely rump, she would have orgasms during the session.Jamila at first did this quietly, in fact, I had not realised she was having orgasms until one day she rather frenziedly said, “Stop, stop, I am shaking to pieces.”I stopped and asked her if she was OK.Jamila replied, “I was having the third orgasm of this Cebeci Escort session when it became so strong I had to get you to stop before I lost control of myself. The feelings were enormous.”She lay on the bed legs a bit apart and I could see her clitoris in motion, she wasn’t faking it.I put the apparent earlier lack of reaction to the sexual stimulus of a spanking down to her rather conservative and religious upbringing. Jamila thought that whilst these activities were very pleasurable, they were also ‘naughty’ and it maybe was wrong to allow her pleasure to show.Maybe it had to do in part with the general overcrowding in her country and the necessity of keeping the noise down during sex.I said that spanking was acceptable because whippings had been administered inside church premises where sex was not permitted. I think she got the point.Jamila’s favourite after a long hand spanking warm-up is to have me cane her over my knee or the side of the bed lightly with a thin cane with ten to fifteen seconds between strokes. She can take a huge number of strokes like this, with her bottom becoming a light overall red but with very few individual cane marks.We have tried out several different implements. She does not like the strap, floggers, and the Cebeci Escort Bayan martinet, the thin cane being her firm favourite.Jamila loves to be caned wearing a pair of split crotch culottes that frame her bum beautifully and enhance the visual appearance thereof when administering the caning.Sometimes if she has been naughty she will ask for ‘six of the best’ at the end and will get a final 6 (or maybe more at her request) delivered very slowly but harder.These leave marks on her bum but often end in another huge orgasm and a request for sex as soon as the caning orgasm fades away… But if we do this there won’t be more spanking for three or four days as she doesn’t like the sensation of sitting on a very sore bum for the next day or so.The canings are usually a prelude to sex because Jamila loves to be screwed immediately after the last cane stroke. After all, the caning makes her feel so horny.Jamila also sometimes likes to be given a short caning a bit before she needs a pee because she likes the feeling of sitting on the loo while she has a sore bum…I introduced her to the art of switching which was a new thing for her. I think she was at first surprised by it but got into the swing of it quickly once she got over the feeling that Escort Cebeci in her culture the female should be the more submissive.I usually have trouble sitting after a switching session and sometimes I am marked for up to three weeks due to the force of the caning at my request. A smallish lady can inflict a very painful caning, up to and beyond the limit of my endurance. It says a lot about the ability of the cane to punish.Jamila saw that I suffered when caned hard. I think it increased her determination to sometimes allow herself to be caned beyond her limit (usually after being naughty) and take the aforementioned ‘six of the best’.I think seeing me suffer pain and reacting to it increased her confidence that I would have empathy with her when she was on the receiving end. Her willingness to take ‘six of the best’ increased a lot after we started switching.We have a bidet spray attachment by the loo and Jamila loves to play this on her pussy while she is on the loo as it always gives her at least one orgasm.If we can find a hotel with a bidet, particularly after a caning, Jamila likes to sit on it and lets me help to wash her pussy… She says that playing on the bidet after a caning makes her want to have the caning all over again!Once after pleasuring herself with a post-caning session on a bidet, Jamila was walking back to the bed wanting more. She kept on freezing up during the walk as waves of the continuing orgasm swept over her. She has a huge capacity for enjoying multiple orgasms, but I guess that is not unusual.